Divine in 2009
By Phil Evans
Happy New Year to you!
This is your year! Yep- it's time for YOU!
Life is going to be Divine in 2009. Just you watch and see...
2008 is history... and 2009 still a mystery!
The beginning of a new year is always a great time to reflect on where you are in life. To ask yourself a couple of questions, "Am I where I really want to be"? "Am I doing what I really want to be doing"? "What can I do to get myself on track; to have a true daily purpose"?
It is a great time to set some new goals: however, it is also a time where people give up early! When setting goals for anything we need to be passionate about them; we need to believe in ourselves, and our ability to manifest them; we need to be able to visualize them actually happening; we also need to write them down as if we are already achieving them! e.g.; "I am living my life on purpose; I am ready for perfect health, wealth and wisdom to flow into my life with ease and joy; and I know and feel that I am worthy of receiving the best in life"! Please note that I have spoken about feeling ready and deserving! Why?
There are three main keys in unlocking the door to creating anything!
Firstly: we must feel ready for whatever it is we are desiring; Secondly: we must feel deserving (worthy) of receiving same; and, Thirdly: we must visualize and feel the results as if they are already with us, and constantly re-affirm to ourselves that they are happening... now!
In going through this process, do your best to make your desires stronger and more persistent than the excuses or bad habits which may try to sabotage you and your results! Do your best to recognize and minimize those obstacles which may present themselves as saboteurs!
And do your best to avoid letting all of this slip behind into the busy-ness of life as the year progresses; and therefore do your best to stay on track and achieve what you deserve to achieve!
Remember this: A positive attitude may not directly change your circumstances, but it will change the way you respond to your circumstances!
Positive people are much more likely than are negative people to turn their ideas into positive behavior. Positive behavior, in turn, does change circumstances, and usually for the better. To grab hold of a problem and rise above it, first grab hold of a positive thought!
I've got some personal news to share with you all (see below) but I want to leave you with some ways to challenge yourself this year:
This year is my year - it is time for me!
I don't want to conform or comply or feel obligated - I am just being myself!
I am teaching myself (and others) to take risks - rather than living in fear!
I am learning the simplicity of enjoying every breath - 'cos without 'em I'm stuffed! I have an attitude of gratitude for the simple things I have - like my ability to see! I am learning to be a walking talking lesson to others - 'cos I'm teaching by example!
Personal News
Today is the anniversary of my discovery that I am adopted. Wow - where has that year gone? We had a very special event over Christmas: I introduced my Birth Mother to my Life Mother. Yes, we all got together at our place, and one of the most amazing moments of my life was when I had the privilege of saying, "Mum - this is Mum"! It was an amazing experience; full of healing!
We've been lucky enough to have a pod of dolphins playing about 100 metres from our home for the last three weeks, so I've spent as much time down there with them as possible. Pure magic!
2008 was an extremely challenging year for Sue and I, as it was for many others; so for all of you who endured anything other than joy and harmony in 2008 - may 2009 be special for you! It's during those testing times that very special words or acts of kindness from others can make all the difference. One such example was recently found by me on the note board on our fridge, and it was the simplest and yet most beautiful experience for me, and it looked like this:
I love you
you are my rock
thank you
xxx
Have a great week of being good to yourself, and to others.
Remember: "What others do or say is their stuff; how we react, or not, is our stuff"! And: "True Happiness in life isn't having what you want, but wanting what you have"!
© Phil Evans - People StuffTM - 2009
Personal (Life) Coach and Small Business Mentor
Specializing in Relationship Dynamics
Keynote Speaker: Life Skills and Business Topics